Wednesday, January 30, 2008

women`s language.

men and women communicate differently.

men talk to exchange information.

women talk to elicit responses.

men use thier mode of communication to speak to women and mostly turn off thier target.

and this is true of women too.

imagine if you had the ability to make a woman feel any way you wanted to simply by talking to her.

you already do make her feel many things by talking to her. unfortunately most of the things she will feel this way are neutral at best, because you aren`t used to talking about things that turn her on in the way she gets aroused.

she`s not interested in baseball or politics or the weather.

she will engage with you about these things if she`s already attracted to you or if she`s comfortable with you socially, but when you are meeting women that interest you conversations about these things will bore her quickly.

she also doesn`t care about your car or your hockey team.

she isn`t wired to care about these things.

she is really hoping that you are a poet or an artist who can help her to paint pictures in her mind and get strong feelings as a response.

ok, got it?

tell her stories that involve her senses.

visual, auditory, kinesthetic, gustatory, olfactory. proprioceptic.

sight, sound, touch, taste, smell......and one other. balance.

each woman is slightly different in terms of which internal state gets her aroused, but it doesn`t take long to find out which way her map works.

you tell her stories from different perspectives.

one story might be about the beach, and another might be about supper, and one might be about the feel of a particular type of material......and how it feels against the skin.

if you are paying atention to her reaction as you speak you will notice that she will begin to react strongly whan you hit the right button.

her pupils will dialate.

her skin will flush.

the muscles in her face will loosen and her lips will swell ever so slightly.

and if you are on target, her breathing will deepen and her chest will heave.

telling her a story that elicits these type of responses totally masters her neurology.

and she will not want you to stop.

you may think this is a lot of work, and difficult to do.

well, at first it takes practice to feel comfortable communicating this way......but over time women will become fascinated by the way you make them feel because you are appealing to thier own internal structure of arousal.......

simply by telling stories designed to elicit responses of arousal in a woman you want to be with.

while you are sitting with her controlling her undivided attention.

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