flirting.

i used to be a dumbass.

i used to think that flirting was a waste of time.

i will say this now; it is the single greatest skill you can ever develop in your career in meeting beautiful women.

it doesn`t matter who you are, what you have or what you do.....unless you become proficient at flirting with women you will deprive yourself of entry into the world of female sexuality.

you have found yourself having a pleasant conversation with a woman in the past about something trivial, like the weather or tea vs. coffee or whatever and realised that what was happening was less about the weather or hot drinks than it was about the delicate dance that you were involved in together.

i spent a half hour at starbucks one afternoon having a magnificent flirt with a girl about whether tea was better for you than coffee and we did it so well that we just smiled and nodded at eachother and made agreeable noises for more than 30 minutes.

her daughters kept trying to interrupt and ask her to go but she was so focussed on enjoying the silly conversation with me that she just ignored them.

the thing is that once you get comfortable with this kind of interaction then you can choose to take it to the next level.........which are the covert illicitation of responses and precise calibration of her internal "map of the world".