the bars.

we typically think that all the hot women are crowded into bars on an evening and they are the ones who are most likely to be interested in meeting guys.....

well, not necessarily.

there are a number of factors that are working against you in the bar environment.

firstly, the place is way too loud for the nuance and subtlety of conversation.

secondly, she`s most likely with friends and having fun, and not interested in getting "cornered".

thirdly, alcohol distorts your and her perceptions of most things.....and besides, drunk isn`t sexy at all.

though don`t rule bars out. you will find yourself in one occasionally and there will be women in them, so practice, practice, practice.

so, what are your options?

everywhere else, any other time of day.

a short list might help.

libraries. (the book she`s reading is a clue.)

grocery stores. (shopping carts are great props.)

walking your dog (or borrow one.)

gas station forecourts.

starbucks.

live events.

parks. (dog-walking.)

the city at lunch-time......my god what a place of simple pleasure and joy.

and any other place where men and women go and spend social time.

all of these places are full of women who aren`t drunk and who would enjoy casual conversation from a skillful stranger....

...and you owe her this.

think about that.