practice, practice, practice.

this applies to anything worthwhile doing.

the old joke goes like this;

a boy walks up to a man on the street in new york city and says "mister, how do you get to carnegie hall?"

the man says "practice son, practice."

when all else fails try enormous amounts of repitition.

so when i say practice, i mean go out and say hello to beautiful women. strike up a conversation and leave them with a smile. gain confidence in your posture and your pacing and vocal tone.

they will appreciate it and you will gain confidence in your ability to do it again and again until it becomes second nature.

you will become the person in the line that is smooth and confident with the pretty barista and you will say just the right thing to have her smile and blush slightly and delicately......and remember you the next time.