failure.
the number one reason why people fail?
fear of failure.
so the number one reason why you fail at meeting beautiful women is because you fear failing to meet beautiful women.
so.....how does one go around this.
by not trying to meet beautiful women.
ok, so now what.
just make eye contact and smile at a beautiful woman.
just say hello to a beautiful woman as you pass her in the grocery store.
say hello and wait for her response and allow yourself the four or five seconds to relax as she responds, and the next few moments will flow into an intuitive aha! experience that you can build on.....for next time.
because this is training day.
and every day from this point onward is training day.
and so say goodbye to failure.
because you aren`t trying to do anything.
posted by Dr.Alistair @ 6:22 PM
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17 Comments:
i fell in love recently...and so did she.
Enjoy your little insanity while you can.
cruel bill, but in some ways true.
dr. alistair,
I will have to deal with you fully tomorrow. I am thoroughly tired, and couldn't imagine having you as a therapist; due to your very suggestive more, or less propaganda. Exactly how many of your clients have fired you?
Three things I noticed about you Sir, the great "dr" that you are
a.)
You "say" that you think America is great
b.)
You crap on comments by the very people that created The United States of America; which would be the founding father's. Who created famous quotes such as: "Better To Die On Your Feet, Than To Live On Your Knees!!"
From what you said, The famous quote would read: "It is better to cower on your knees in fear in a totalitarian state lucky to have the privilege to breath with hot water, and lights; than be brave, and stand up for what is right even if that were to incur death. Being a live slave is better, than dying for standing up for what is correct!"
c.)
I also read from UNLOADED your armchair quarterback metaphor. I gotta tell ya' it wasn't very good. You changed again an American founding father's statement which was: "The Pen Is Mightier Than The Sword"!!
I know for sure Sir you have possibly have been in a situation where you could of thrown the "Football", but more than likely cowered on your knees. Read down I believe three to four of my posts. You'll see a picture of a Guatemalan being shot, and murdered. The photo is shaking because my sister was stupid enough to take it. It resulted in........read the blog coward.
In essence you restated, yet again, a famous American Founding Father comment into something along the modern lines of:"unless your a mercenary, or have your "nut job" finger on the red ICBM button; you really don't have any business talking"!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will say, I am well traveled. I have been to more "shit holes" than I can remember. From reading your comment which I am not even close to being done with you have been in the very safe countries of England as a child, and now currently Canada. Have you been to any other countries that can even come close to your carry a "bigger stick" comment on UNLOADED? I think from being the mystic that I am, for arguements sake you'll list off a few. Well I'll tell ya' what I have pictures to back up my words Sir.........So once again, until tomorrow when I am refreshed to fully psychoanalyse you. To very clearly point out your good suggestive ramblings; that go in, and out of truths, and none truths
have a great night, and remember,
Peace and Freedom
the pen.......
while this statement has some validity in certain contexts, the reality is that the sword is aways the sole arbiter of arguement between unreasonable men.
pens do not control unruly rabbles, swords do.
pens do not end tyranny, swords do.
pens are used to keep records, swords make history.
even in dim backwaters such as guatemala......the real rules cannot be broken.
you will have to agree that on the dangerous streets of your towns people do not openly disagree for fear of a bullet, as you claim you witnessed.
one can play the heroic idealist on the keyboard on a blog or two amongst a loose collection of like-minded malcontents who stroke your polarised reactionary ego, but in the open forum of debade the other sides will have thier voice also.
all of which adds up to nothing, changing nothing, adding or detracting from nothing.
meanwhile life goes on and modern technological feudalism rolls on....whether we like it or not.
today i sit in my air-conditioned apartment listening to my child play the guitar.
such spoilt indulgence.
such is life.
oh yeah, and about b....
there are other alternatives to living or dying in such states.
"Better To Die On Your Feet, Than To Live On Your Knees!!"
a statement such as that is designed to split a weak/passive mind into an and/or position whereby one can only accept either one or the other position.
this split continues to this day, and while you claim to be able to think clearly, you consistantly fall into the trap choosing a position someone else has dictated to you.
in therapy i find this in most neurotics.....a linguistic construct that the more you struggle the tighter the hold becomes.
this is the world of politics for the populus, divided and self-conquering.
if i said you could only have a cat or a dog, which would you choose?
is the glass half full or half empty?
i find the dynamics of psychotherapy much more interesting than politics, simply because it gives personal control as opposed to stealing it.
why fight someone else`s war?
especially when you don`t get paid for your efforts and run the risk of paying the ultimate price.
i choose to live on my feet by the way......
TO BOOST THE AMOUNT OF COMMENTS YOU'RE GETTING, KIND REGARDS!!!
From the blog UNLOADED;dr.alistair
said:
nobody ranges in a combat zone with the safety on....to teach that would get a boy dead in any game, real or otherwise....
fraud?
where`s this invective coming from?
"dr. alistair",
It is apparent with my links given to you, and the challenged presented that you are still a fascist fraud.
Go to Spokane, Washington the Mom, and Pop stores are thriving! Wal-Mart, and every other chain is there as well. The difference is that being in a farming community the Mom and Pop stores can sell at half the price of the chains..Go there and see.
Also, I will because of the nature of the sensitivity of the nature of this particular post correct you again.
A BB traveling at 400fps is fast enough to penetrate many things including skulls. They do bounce off your Kettle pots, and go some where? Don't they? You did say copper, Right? A ricochet is a very, very dangerous thing.
On the note of combat zones: When soldiers have their "BOOTS ON THE GROUND; THEY ARE TOLD TO COCK AND LOCK" This means in a combat zone rack a round in the chamber, and have your safety on!! It is one of the most important of all lessons taught in the military; for the simple fact that you have a lot of people that are in harms way.......ALWAYS COCKED AND LOCKED!!! Military SIR.
Peace and Freedom
Here is everything you said at the site UNLOADED. 400fps, dents in my kettle sound like the metal bb rather than harmless plastic ones. Maybe, No absolutely your a paid subversive! Cocked and Locked is what ALL military teach. As far as conventional handling of weapons, never chambered, and safety on........You being a mystic; why would you encourage your children to destroy?
dr.alistair said...
sasbb gun wars....i have the scars to prove it.
i recently bought airsoft guns for my children, boys 9 and 12. these are serious weapons with a 400 fps muzzle velocity so the lads are told to carry the guns muzzle down with thier fingers outside of the trigger ring until they bring the weapon to bear toward the target. they have been drilled never to aim the weapon at a target unless they have decided to fire, and not to point the weapon at people or animals, even in jest.
so thy`ve shot the apartment to shit.
they`ve nailed lightbulbs, my antique brass kettle, some of my pine furniture and all of the cardboard in the place including books and magazines.
but no-one has lost an eye.
and the sound of them letting loose on unsuspecting carboard boxes is magnificent.
dr.alistair said...
nobody ranges in a combat zone with the safety on....to teach that would get a boy dead in any game, real or otherwise....
fraud?
where`s this invective coming from?
9:21 AM, July 10, 2008
dr.alistair said...
it`s so true about the gun thing......and so deeply satifying.
the only problem is,i have no idea how to get the little dents out of my kettle.
6:40 PM, July 10, 2008
IF you will try this in india, surely face will become red or rosy,
very interesting post
oh Dr Alistair bad advice ...if only fewer men smiled, beeped, tried to talk to me most of them utter creeps. Although on the other hand I suppose if I got no male attention I'd feel a bit pissed off!
emma, sorry you attract so many creeps....
..and yeah, you would miss the attention.
the post was about helping men to be comfortable with communicating to women without "creeping".
a woman`s choice is to be respected, for her own choice, and for our own self-respect.
Okay ... Why are 'beautiful' and 'woman' always mentioned in one breath?
Pfffff, they don't even look at me anymore.
who are they?
...technically, I typed Machiavelli, but it hardly seems worth arguing. lol.
Now... what, pray tell, did you mean by that statement? Your intended message was lost in ambiguity.
Hello there, I jumped over to you from Unloaded. I like bald men, and there you were. Superficially, Mitz
ps I rarely fail at conveying my fondness for the bald scenery that comes my way. Happy hypnotising!
thank you mitzi superficial compliment accepted...
I am in ore of this beautiful woman at work... I feel nervous beyond belief when I see her, she chats and laughs with me, we get on well but my heart takes a tumble every time I want to invite her out for a drink.. am I going wrong somewhere?
indigo, it sounds as if you are doing well. she accepts your offer of drinks. try to flirt a little when you are together. touch her hand or brush against her as you walk together. see how she acts....
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